Here to break the stigma of sobriety in the bar/restaurant industry. I have hesitated to comment on the matter for fear of being ostracized, wary of misconceptions. But fuck that. I love what I do, I revel in being the host of the party, and I enjoy connecting with people, hearing their stories, and sharing mine. Bartending is a language and a currency that has taken me many special places with many special people. I wouldn't be where or who I am without it.
In May of last year, my depression became too much and I ultimately had to choose between my mental health and drugs and alcohol. I chose myself and vowed to get that shit under control so that I am able to move freely in the world and evolve into my truest, most authentic self. I had to save myself first. It's the hardest thing I've ever done and the most rewarding.
The irony of running a "dedicated drinking establishment" has not been lost on me, but rest assured, I was very dedicated for a very long time. And now I am dedicated to being the best I can be as a friend, a partner, and a leader. I am grateful to be in a place where the torment of restriction does not haunt me. And I am grateful to be in a place where I can focus, be present, and continue to show up for myself and others. Because at the end of the day it's not about the cocktail, it's about the stories and the people behind them.
Change the narrative. Break the stigma. Be free.
Cheers my friends.
In May of last year, my depression became too much and I ultimately had to choose between my mental health and drugs and alcohol. I chose myself and vowed to get that shit under control so that I am able to move freely in the world and evolve into my truest, most authentic self. I had to save myself first. It's the hardest thing I've ever done and the most rewarding.
The irony of running a "dedicated drinking establishment" has not been lost on me, but rest assured, I was very dedicated for a very long time. And now I am dedicated to being the best I can be as a friend, a partner, and a leader. I am grateful to be in a place where the torment of restriction does not haunt me. And I am grateful to be in a place where I can focus, be present, and continue to show up for myself and others. Because at the end of the day it's not about the cocktail, it's about the stories and the people behind them.
Change the narrative. Break the stigma. Be free.
Cheers my friends.